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the neutral zone


vol.5 issue 5
9.05

 

 
 

Quid Novi: News & Updates
News from the Front

Strategic Planning Teams
A Fond Farewell to Stephanie Day
Legal Language
TVMA News
Mediation Toolbox

 

"Change begets change. Nothing propagates so fast."
- Charles Dickens from  Martin Chuzzlewit

 

 

Quid Novi?
News and Updates:

CMC Meetings:  Executive Committee meeting, September 29, 11:30am and October 19, 11:30am, at the Gay St office conference room; Board meeting and Liaison Board meeting, October 20, 5pm-7pm, Juvenile Court Annex conference room.  

TVMA Workshop Dates: 9/30 & 10/1: 
SEE BELOW FOR MORE DETAILS!

Save the dates!  On Friday, September 30, 12:30-6pm and Saturday, October 1, 9am-12 noon, at the Tennessee Valley Unitarian Church on Kingston Pike, Grayfred Gray will be speaking to our large, active Knoxville area mediation community.  The topics will concern mediation, professionalism and ethics.  CLE and CME credits will be offered with a great discount for TVMA members.


* With the help of scholarships, the event is
FREE to members of the public, law students, and those not seeking credits.

Knoxville Bar Association dates:
ADR Section
Tools to Convert Verbal Deals into Written Deals:  Contract Drafting Considerations.

Date:  September 26 
Time: 5:30 - 6:30 p.m.
Speaker: James Kelly Giffen
Location: Anderson, Reeves & Herbert, P.A. - 2607 Kingston Pike, Suite 130 (Tyson Place)

KBA members:  $15, non-members: $25
The program has been approved for one hour of Ethics CLE credit.
Go to the
Knoxville Bar Association website to pre-register

KBA Lunch & Learn
Thursday, November 10, 2005
Club LeConte, 12pm-1pm 

Tips for Interviewing Children and the Elderly

Featuring:  Randy Nichols, Knox Co. District Attorney & Kelly G. Frere, Guyton & Frere

KBA members:  $35; non-members: $50, includes lunch and 1 hr. CLE.

Upcoming conferences & celebrations:
VOMA National conference in Philadelphia, Oct. 24-28
ACR's National conference in Minneapolis, Sept. 28-Oct. 1

October 20, 2005 is Conflict Resolution Day. We need your help to spread the word! The more events and activities planned on this day, the better our chances are of raising public awareness about the benefits of our field. Will you commit to doing one of the following on Conflict Resolution Day?

  • Hold a conflict resolution information session at your workplace;
  • Make a presentation to a Rotary Club or other group in your area;
  • Talk to area high school or college students about "careers in conflict resolution," or help organize a panel discussion or brown-bag meeting on the topic;
  • Make a school or classroom presentation or talk to a school administrator;
  • Use Conflict Resolution Day as a reason to contact a reporter or policy maker (encourage the reporter to cover conflict resolution news in your community, or educate the policy maker about conflict resolution's benefits); and
  • forward this message to your friends, colleagues and other organizations with which you are affiliated, and encourage them to support Conflict Resolution Day.
    Looking for more ideas? Have one to suggest? Go to: www.ACRnet.org/crday or email acr@ACRnet.org.

 Mediation Book Recommendations:
  Conflict Mediation Across Cultures:  Pathways and Patterns (Paperback) by David Augsberger

Mediation Links:
     - You Draw Straws, http://www.youdrawstraws.com/start.cfm, an online method to make group decisions.

    - TBA Law Related Education, http://www.tba.org/tncivics/index.html, a partnership among the legal and education communities to teach about the law, the legal process and legal concepts such as authority, responsibility and justice. Our immediate goal is to promote, support and serve as a resource for best practices in civic education.


Mediation articles of interest:
 - For a range of interesting articles about peer mediation and beyond, go to Mediate.com's youth pages at http://www.mediate.com/youth/

    - Top 10 articles requested or emailed from Mediate.com's site: http://www.mediate.com/articles/toparticles.cfm

 

 

news from the front (office):

We've had a really busy month, preparing for all the good change to come for CMC.  Volunteers continue to help us by organizing our files and improving our procedures, not to mention answering phones, running errands, and providing important input as members of our Strategic Teams.  (Hey, Jim, "team" does sound more fun than "committee"!)

We are beginning to work with an outside bookkeeper, Julie Mitchell, a respected member of Knoxville's accounting community, Mitchell Emert & Hill , and a specialist in nonprofit accounting and taxes.  Thank you, Julie, for working with CMC and making the practical side of life a pleasure.

We so appreciate those volunteers who signed up to help with truancy mediation, due to start next month.  I'll be in touch to orient you and schedule you for these mediations.

Thanks to a lead provided by our own Mr. Don K. Ferguson, we've received a generous $2000 grant from the Knoxville-based Robert Lee Weiss Foundation, to support our peer mediation program. Peer mediation is a venerated program at CMC.  The peer mediation program has been a part of our work for almost seven years, and we've started peer mediation at 10 Knox County public schools, concentrating on those with the most at stake in reducing school violence.  We have programs at:  Bearden Middle School, Carter Middle School, Cedar Bluff Middle School, Gresham Middle School, Halls Middle School, Karns Middle School; Northwest Middle School, South Doyle Middle School, Vine Middle School, Whittle Springs Middle School, Halls High School, West High School, and Austin-East High School, with interest coming from both Carter High School and Gibbs High School.  Over 300 peer mediators have been trained by CMC, and 400+ student mediations held in Knox County schools.  We are going to be actively seeking financial support from local, state and national foundations, the legal community, and interested individuals for our peer mediation programs in the coming months.

For the past six years, much of CMC's peer mediation networking and training workload has been carried out by our many wonderful  VISTA  volunteers.  We are in a VISTA-less moment right now (although we are still able to see our "vista"), and so our need for and appreciation of CMC volunteer aid is very acute.  Our board secretary, Lisa Carroll, is convener of CMC's Peer Mediation Advisory Council, and one of our new volunteer mediators, Janet McMullen, worked with our out-going VISTA volunteers, Sarah, Lesley, and Cathy, before they left, to get all their work documented and training materials updated. We welcome any volunteers who would like to serve on the Advisory Council or work with us in our training. 

Peer mediation allows students to help other students resolve conflict on a daily basis, and gives students who mediate and who participate very effective communication and peace-making skills for use in their daily lives.  It is an alternative to traditional discipline---instead of being punished for being in conflict, students take the opportunity to look closely at a dispute, explore the emotions behind it, and identify ways to prevent the same problem in the future.  Everyone experiences conflict, but when students are continually punished for being in conflict, they become known either to themselves or other students as "bad kids". 

CMC provides student peer mediators with an extensive training, covering subject such as:  identifying and defining conflict; conflict styles; validating feelings and emotions; understanding stereotypes and bias; active listening; communication.  They also learn the same six-step mediation co-mediation process they we teach our adult volunteers.

This fall, we are also experimenting with a semester-long training in peer mediation at Nature's Way Montessori  middle school.  It's exciting to see our program enthusiastically embraced by a school which is dedicated to conflict resolution skill-building in all their students, including pre-school age.  The pre-schoolers are taught a method of conflict resolution using the "peace rug" and the "magic wand", where those in dispute bring their friend to the peace rug and use special words to declare their hurt feelings.

Education is not filling a bucket, but lighting a fire. - William  Butler Yeats 

 



Strategic Planning Teams Scheduled to Meet---
Please Consider Joining a CMC Team as a part of your volunteer work!

We still need team members, so sign up with the team leaders, or send in your ideas.  If you would like meeting reports for any particular Team Meeting, send an email to Jackie Kittrell, jkittrell@2mediate.org


If you're not sure where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
       - unknown

 

 

 

 

A Fond Farewell to Stephanie Day (Steff):

We would like to extend our utmost appreciation and thanks to our departing volunteer mediator and Treasurer, Stephanie Day.  Steff came to CMC with the Spring 2005 mediator class, already a certified mediator in Chicago, and was a super volunteer from the moment she was trained.  She was an enthusiastic mediator in Juvenile Court and, when CMC needed a volunteer skilled in financial matters, stepped gracefully and skillfully into the Board and Executive Committee position of Treasurer.  Stephanie is a banker and loan officer by profession and was ever-helpful and reassuring as we worked our way through a staff transition and annual audit.  She's gone back to her true home in Chicago, and while we enjoyed her being here in East Tennessee, we understand completely that home is where the heart is. 

 

 

 

Our new staff email addresses:

Jackie Kittrell:  jkittrell@2mediate.org
Sharon Upshaw:
supshaw@2mediate.org
Jen Comiskey: 
jcomiskey@2mediate.org  

 

We've called and offered our volunteer services to the local Red Cross to make mediation available to Hurricane Katrina evacuees here in Knox County.  We could and would be happy to mediate intra-family, youth, and "neighborhood" disputes or concerns arising in the shelters! 

If any CMC volunteer would like to specifically volunteer for this kind of mediation, let us know.  We aren't yet sure of the venue or times needed, but will call you when we do.
If you would like to donate to the Hurricane relief efforts directly through the ARC, click here !

 

Legal Language

By Don K. Ferguson
(CMC volunteer mediator in Knox County General Sessions Court and author of the "Grammar Gremlins" column that appears in The Knoxville News-Sentinel every Sunday.) 

liquidated damages

   An amount contractually agreed on as a reasonable estimation of actual damages to be recovered by one party if the other party breaks the contract.--Black's Law Dictionary

 


TVMA Fall Mediation Educational Event

September 30 & October 1, 2005

Featuring

Grayfred Gray, Esq.

Mediation Skills, Professionalism, and Ethics

6 hours of CLE / CME

 

Times and Locations:

12:30-6:00 PM Friday September 30
9:00 AM-12:00 Saturday October 1  

Both days' workshops to be held at the
Tennessee Unitarian Universalist Church Sanctuary  (directions available online at
http://www.tvuuc.org/)

Early Registration Fee:          
TVMA members: $50            
TVMA student member: $25

Nonmembers: $80  
 
If you need CLE/CME credit, you will need to pay an
additional fee for those hours:

3 hours of Ethics and 3 hours of General CLE               
TVMA members: $5/hr                       

Nonmembers: $25/hr

TVMA wants to make sure that all those who want to receive training can attend Professor Gray's presentations on both Friday and Saturday. 

If you are a student, a volunteer mediator, or a member of the public, and do not have need of CLE/CME credit, you can receive a scholarship covering the costs of registration. 


TVMA Program Meetings:

For the rest of the 2005-2006 program year, we have scheduled eight monthly meetings, 2 Simulation Saturdays, and 2 Peer Review Saturdays. Topics for most of the meetings have been set, but the Board left the last one open for input, recognizing that events in the rapidly changing world of mediation may create unforeseen opportunities as the season progresses. The TVMA Board welcomes any suggestions.

Regular monthly meetings will continue to be held on the third Tuesday of each month, beginning in October. A social period, with refreshments, will begin at 6:30 p.m. and the program will start at 7:00 p.m. Most programs will only take about an hour, but some may last as late as 8:30. The longer programs will carry 1.5 CLE/CME credits. The program topics are:

  • October "When mediators have to work with advocate counsel."

  • November "Mediation models-Evaluative, Facilitative, Transformative."

  • December "Judge's Panel"

  • January "Mediating Domestic Violence and Criminal Cases."

  • February "Ethics in Mediation"

  • March "Marketing Mediation"

  • April "Mediating Family and Divorce Cases"

  • May Open

TVMA also plans to hold alternating Simulation Saturday and Peer Review events, every other month. Becky Jacobs will continue to host at least two role-play simulations at UT Law School, and there will be two Peer Review conferences held at the Botanical Gardens conference room. Specific dates of these events will be announced later.

Membership in TVMA is open to anyone who supports mediation as a means of resolving disputes. Regular membership is $30.00. Student membership is $15.00. Anyone wishing to join should contact
Judy Toole, Treasurer, 1408 Walker Road, Maryville, TN. 37801, tvmatreasurer@earthlink.net .

 

At its June 19 retreat, the board wrote and adopted a new mission statement for the organization, and set the agenda for the coming year. The new mission statement reads as follows:

The Tennessee Valley Mediation Association has two distinct missions: to foster high quality mediation and to promote mediation as an alternative dispute resolution process. TVMA is an inclusive organization that welcomes all supporters of mediation and alternative dispute resolution practices.

TVMA will soon have an updated website available for viewing---give them a month or so and then check them out at www.tnmediators.com

          

 

Mediation Toolkit

Basic Facts About Low-Income Children

The NCCP (National Center for Children in Poverty) has released a set of three fact sheets that describe general demographic characteristics of children in low-income families – their number and proportion, where they live and how often they move, their age distribution, race, and ethnicity, and their parent's education, employment marital status, and country of origin. The fact sheets cover Infants and Toddlers, Young Children, and All Children. downloadable.


 

Judges Page Newsletter: A newsletter published online by CASA, highlighting resources for Juvenile Judges with jurisdiction over children in foster care .  This month's newsletter is devoted to educational resources for kids in care.

Juvenile Delinquency Guidelines: Improving Court Practices in Juvenile Delinquency Cases Downloadable in html or pdf files, published in Summer 2005, is a benchbook of best practices.

All Governments and Laws of the World

U.S. law, regulations, & agencies

Database searches for government documents

 

That which we persist in doing becomes easier - not that the nature of the task has changed, but our ability to do has increased. - Ralph Waldo